End Emotional Eating
Jillian Michaels | Contributing WriterDecember 12, 2008
Does your mood affect your eating habits? Do you turn to sweets when you’re sad? Do you stuff your face with junk food when you’re stressed? Eating unhealthly and binge eating due to your negative emotions is common and can become a habit that's hard to break. The Biggest Loser trainer Jillian Michaels shares her five steps to recognize and overcome emotional eating.
- Step 1: When you think you're hungry, you need to stop yourself right as you're going for the fridge. Just learn to stop yourself and ask yourself in that moment, "Am I even hungry?"
- Step 2: Evaluate. Is your stomach growling? Do you feel weak? Are you tired? When was the last time you ate? Was it three or four hours ago? Ask yourself those questions. The first thing to do is write down, "Okay, I'm hungry." On a scale of 1 to 10 (10 being the hungriest), I want you to ask yourself, "How hungry am I?" Are you a 1, or a 5, or a 10?
- Step 3: I want you to write down if, in fact, you're hungry and the last time you ate. What's going on for you emotionally? Take a look—explore yourself and your feelings. What's going on? "Well, you know what, I'm anxious." "We have layoffs at the office." "I'm going through a break up." Identify the emotion and what's going on inside of you.
- Step 4: Now that you've recognised it, you need to face it in order to conquer it. So now you've got to look at this and ask yourself, "Can this issue be resolved in the now?" Do you have the ability to deal with it? Did you have a fight with your mom? Can you call her and rectify it? Maybe your dog died. Who knows? Sometimes things just suck.
- Step 5: If you're at the point where you can't resolve the issue, you need to find ways of nurturing yourself and pampering yourself that are not food related. Know yourself. Do you collect stuff? Do you like to go on eBay and thrift shop? What are your hobbies? Put together a family album. Write your memoirs. Do stuff that's incompatible with self-destruction and that will help. That's why a lot of the contestants on the ranch—when they were working out so hard and taking such good care of themselves—often, I think, didn't eat enough because they begin to associate eating with being self-destructive.
At the end of the day, here's also what I would say: “Sometimes, you know what, it just doesn't work.” Make a healthier choice. Have air-popped popcorn, not crisps. Have sugar-free lollipops instead of Ben & Jerry's. When all else fails, make a healthier choice.
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Comments
Date: 11/17/2008 - 09:40 am
These are excellent tips. I don't know how many times I find myself eating when I'm not hungry. It will do me good to figure out why I am doing that.
Date: 11/26/2008 - 12:39 am
Yes I do eat alot during the night timeafter 9pm, and i do binge! what can i do i work out alot but dont know what to do!! Iam 43 years old and going threw alot of stress I have 4 teenagers and a single mother.
Date: 12/03/2008 - 01:07 pm
Finally! Steps to address emotional eating. I will do this and I pray it will help me lose this weight that was from med's the Dr put me on. Thing is that I am not hungry much and I don't like eating when I am not hungry. I feel like I am wasting food. I eat when I am hungry and now some are saying that you need to keep yourself full so you won't overeat. That is a big problem with me and with how much more things cost and just can't afford it. Sometimes it is cheaper to buy 1 $1 burger. Is that really wrong? I have got to lose this weight and desperate to try anything I can afford.
Date: 03/31/2009 - 12:27 pm
This are good tips. and they helped me so much and i wish to get more next time
Date: 04/20/2009 - 11:49 am
I will certainly use these tips for emotional eating, When I throw all sorts of emotions I tend to go for the sweet things I find these foods are a comfort to me, and by following these tips.I shall hopefully get rid of the feeling of wanting to eat the wrong types of food. I am a nurse on a busy ward and work night shifts as well as day shifts,so always going for the wrong type of foods to give me some engery